Matthew 1; 2 Corinthians 5:17-21
I long for reconciliation. We all do. I think it is something naturally deeply embedded in our souls. We long for things to be made right. We desire broken relationships to be mended, lives to be made whole, wounds to be healed.
When I was in high school, me and my best friend had a fight. One day after almost a whole year of not speaking, Lisa passed a note to me in French class. (yes, long before texting, we did something called writing notes!) She told me she missed me and that she wanted to be friends again. That was it! I did too. It didn't take long before we went back to being best friends again as if nothing happened. It was good. That year that went by without her, I had other friends, did other things, but it wasn't the same. Deep inside I knew that I really wished me and Lisa would just make up. So glad we did. We are still best friends today 25+ years later!
I started thinking the other day about Christmas and reconciliation. It dawned on me that is what it's about. God sent Jesus to this earth as a gift, yes, but he came with a purpose. To put things right and to reconcile us to God. That which was broken would be fixed with the gift of that tiny babe because later, that babe would sacrifice himself and die to save the world from their sins. So humbling to think of how far God went to seek us out. This gift of reconciliation even started with Mary and Joseph.
Before Joseph and Mary got married she became pregnant. Joseph found out and "because he did not want to expose her to public disgrace, he had in mind to divorce her quietly." He was ticked. Probably embarrassed, confused. He thought Mary cheated on him. My guess is there was an instant shattering of that relationship. But, later that night an angel came to Joseph and told him, "do not be afraid to take Mary home as your wife, because what is conceived in her is from the Holy Spirit. She will give birth to a son, and you are to give him the name Jesus, because he will save his people from their sins." Joseph believed and did what the angel said and took Mary to be his wife. They went to Bethlehem together and Mary had a baby named Jesus, Emmanuel, God with us.
What does God's reconciliation mean to us? It means that God doesn't count our sins against us. He forgives us. Any distance between us and God (created by sin) is bridged by grace. What a blessed promise. This same ministry of reconciliation was handed down to us. We should preach this forgiveness and live it. This Christmas, if something doesn't feel right in your life, I'd encourage you to ask yourself, is there a reconciliation that needs to happen? Is it between you and another person? Between you and God? Whatever it is, wherever you are, God wants you to know that He came for you to help you make it right.
May we all use this time of year to reflect on the meaning of Jesus' birth and be reconciled once again to Him and to others.
Penny Stevens on December 9, 2016 at 12:57 am
I’m going through a time of separation and not speaking with my Mother of all people. Not by my choice but because of circumstances. I want reconciliation with her but it’s just difficult. Please pray for this situation and that reconciliation will take place between us. Thanks and Merry Christmas.
Cecily on December 9, 2016 at 1:05 am
Love this sweet reminder!
Rosamond Salumbides on December 11, 2016 at 4:13 pm
Thank you so much for this message. Please pray for the reconciliation of my marriage. Also please pray for the resolution of our issues between my husband, Danny and me so that we will have harmonious relationship. Also for the salvation of Danny so we will love and live together for the glory of God.
Judy VanCuren on December 12, 2016 at 7:51 pm
I will pray for healing and restoration! “Now to him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, according to his power that is at work within us,”
Ephesians 3:20 NIV
greatisgodsfaithfulness on December 12, 2016 at 8:20 pm
Reconciliation is not easy, yet God gave us this ministry. I have found that I need to pursue it with others, even if they do not reciprocate with understanding their part in a relationship issue. God blesses you if you seek forgiveness and reconciliation. Your brother in Christ, Randy